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7 Subtle But Indisputable Signs That Someone Will Never Help You
So you stop wasting your time
The worst thing that can happen to you is to seek help from someone who isn’t willing to help but doesn’t want to tell you outright.
We all need help at some point in our lives. We look to family members, friends, colleagues, or even strangers. But what if the person you’re asking to help you doesn’t want to help and wouldn’t be open about it, even though they make you believe they will?
How do you spot time wasters who masquerade as helpers?
The answer lies in their subtle behaviors—tiny signals that reveal their true intentions. These aren’t the obvious excuses or outright refusals; instead, they’re almost invisible to the untrained eye.
If you learn to identify them, you can redirect your energy toward people who genuinely want to support you. Here are 11 of these signs, so you can protect your time, energy, and hope.
They Give Excessive Praise for Your Independence
When someone repeatedly talks about how “strong,” “resourceful,” or “capable” you are, it can feel uplifting.
They praise your ability to handle challenges, push through difficulties, or find solutions on your…
