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What Makes People Consider You Ugly Even If You’re Physically Attractive?
6 ‘ugly’ traits that affect your relationship with other people
Being considered ugly isn’t just about a person’s physical looks.
When people say someone is ‘ugly,’ it’s not often because they don’t look visually appealing.
Instead, it’s more about their personality and character traits that others find off-putting.
Of course, the first thing people notice about a person is their face before their actions.
However, the effect of a pretty face is only temporary. What has a more defining impact on how people perceive you is your character.
I’ve seen gorgeous men and women who are hideous on the inside. Some people are beautiful inside and out. Some are ugly on the outside but beautiful inside. It takes all kinds.
But people consider you ugly if you do any or more of these, regardless of your physical appearance.
1. Treating other people poorly.
One of the first things I look out for in a person is how they treat others, especially those they perceive to be of lower status in some way.
