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The Unexpected Harsh Truths About Women in Modern Dating
Most people are afraid to say this.
Let’s talk about some uncomfortable truths about modern dating, especially when it comes to women.
These are not the kinds of things you’ll hear in romantic comedies or from the latest self-help book on relationships. No, these are the hard truths that most men learn the hard way.
It’s easy to feel disillusioned when you start to realize some of these things, but understanding them canhelp you to navigate the dating world with a clearer head. So, let’s dive in.
First up, men are often viewed more as assets than as people who are genuinely loved.
It’s a harsh reality, but in many cases, men are valued for what they bring to the table—whether it’s money, status, or security.
It’s essential to understand that this “what can you do for me?” mentality isn’t new. Social media and dating apps have only made it more visible today.
Women have always been married off to the men who can provide for them. However, the constant exposure to curated lives and the ease of swiping to find a new partner means that women can be more more transactional in their relationships today.
