This One Invisible Force Shapes Your Habits and Decisions Without You Knowing
You think you’re in control, but you’re not.
As humans, we like to think we’re in total control of our decisions. We think every choice we make stems from logic, rationale, and self-control.
But the truth most people don’t realize is that much of our behavior is shaped by the invisible forces of the people around us.
Whether it’s checking your phone at dinner, grabbing that extra drink at the bar, or binge-watching a show instead of sleeping, these behaviors are often less about your willpower and more about something we don’t always talk about — “social contagion.”
Social contagion is the idea that behaviors, emotions, and habits spread like viruses within social circles. It’s a process where people influence each other, often without realizing it, leading to the adoption of certain behaviors, emotions or trends.
Social contagion help people adopt positive habits and feelings, but it also lead to negative influences without them realizing it.
When you’re around people who are happy, healthy, or kind, you’re more likely to feel and act positively. However, if you’re surrounded by negativity, stress, or harmful behaviors, you’ll start to feel or act that way…