Socially Charismatic People Know These Four Interaction Skills

Master them to build connection faster.

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Have you ever felt an instant connection with someone you just met and wondered why you were so drawn to them?

Maybe it’s the way they speak, how they carry themselves, or their sense of humor.

Here’s the truth: You feel that way towards them because they possess a rare trait called social charisma.

Social charisma is the ability to attract, charm, and influence those around you.

Socially charismatic people are not necessarily born that way. They’ve learned and mastered a set of interaction skills that allow them to hold people’s attention.

Here are four such skills that can make a huge difference in your relationship and success.

1. Measured and Articulate Speaking

The first thing people notice when you speak to them, at least for the first time, isn’t just what you’re saying but how you’re saying it.

Take my word for it, speaking slowly, carefully thinking through your thoughts and presenting them in a compelling way on the go, whether you’re interviewing for a job or making a presentation, can leave someone wanting you to keep listening to you…