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If Someone Ever Said ‘You’re Arrogant,’ These 7 Habits Might Be Why

Subtle behaviors hhat could be shaping how others see you.

Victor Mong
7 min readSep 2, 2024
Photo by Joshua Rawson-Harris on Unsplash

Have you ever felt like you’re just being yourself, but people think you’re arrogant?

Arrogance is a trait we’ve all encountered at one time or the other, and it’s almost universally disliked.

If you’ve ever been told that you’re arrogant, or you’ve noticed people pulling away from you during interactions, it might be worth it to examine some behaviors that could be responsible to this perception.

Here are habits that often make people get the wrong idea about you, even if arrogance is the last thing on your mind.

You Ignore Social Cues

Ignoring social cues is one of the most subtle yet significant habits that can make you appear arrogant.

Social cues, such as tone of voice, body language, and facial expressions, are the unspoken signals that guide our interactions with others.

They help us understand when someone is interested, bored, uncomfortable, or engaged in a conversation.

When you overlook these cues, it can create the impression that you are indifferent to other people’s feelings and perspectives, which can…

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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