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If Someone Does This For You, They Truly Value You

Six behaviors you should look out for if you want to know whether or not someone values you.

Victor Mong
6 min readSep 20, 2022
Photo by Julia Larson

Do you feel you’re not valued by someone or people you care about?

Feeling valued and appreciated is key to a healthy relationship.

Whether it’s with family members, friends, and co-workers or with a romantic partner, you’re likely to be happier and more satisfied if you feel valued.

However, it can be difficult to know if someone really values you. A person may claim you’re important to them but their actions will be saying something different.

If someone truly values you, how they behave and treat you will be obvious. Here are some of the things you should look out for if you’re in doubt:

They Put Everything Else on Hold to Spend Time With You

If someone values your place in their life, they’ll stop what they’re doing to spend time with you.

We’re all pretty busy, shuffling between work, school, family responsibilities, and interests. It can be challenging to meet the needs of the people we care about.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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