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Hard Truth Why Succesful Single Women Find it Hard to Get a Man
It’s more complicated than you think
The funniest crap “successful” women often tell themselves why men don’t want to date is because men are intimidated by them.
It’s not true that men don’t want to date successful women.
It’s not true that men are intimidated by a woman’s success.
I will tell you why.
The reason is a bit more complex than we usually make it seem. So you need to follow me closely.
There is a mathematical side.
Mathematically, it takes time to be successful at anything in life. Let’s say take 10 years as a baseline.
A woman starts her career at 25 years of age and if she focuses on her career as such women are wont to do and everything goes well, she becomes successful. But she’s now 35.
Traditionally, women marry up. So, now that she’s successful, she would naturally want a man that’s older than her (37 and above) and more successful. Sadly, there are two problems here.
Problem 1: Most of the men above 37 and successful are already married. They got married BEFORE they became successful.
