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Bitter Truths About Why Women Hate Nice Guys

Victor Mong
3 min readJun 9, 2024

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Most men don’t have an idea what women mean by a nice guy.

A nice guy isn’t just the guy who treats a woman well, is kind and careful with her wants and needs, but who is still masculine, assertive and in charge of his own life.

Make no mistakes about it, when most women talk about a nice guy, deep down in their hearts, they actually mean someone they can manipulate.

Women date nice guys because they see them as foolish, ignorant, and willing to play by the rules women set.

However, secretly, women dislike these men. They hate them. They know these men are weak and cannot be trusted.

Nice guys believe their mission in life is to rescue women, known as the “savior schema.”

They think that if they go out of their way to do favors for a woman, she’ll like them and maybe even want to have sex with them.

So, if a woman has a problem, a need, is angry, depressed, or sad, nice guys will be running around, sweating, and trying so hard to fix the problem, even without being asked.

Nice guys are dunderheads.

They’re as dumb as the Himalayan Rock.

They’re the sort of men who earns a salary and gives all of it to a woman, thinking the woman will…

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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