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11 Types of People to Avoid If You Want to Protect Your Energy

1. People who act like a victim in a problem they created

Victor Mong
9 min readAug 5, 2024
Photo by Vitaly Gariev on Unsplash

One of the most important decisions you can make in life is to clean up your social circle.

The people around you play a big role in shaping your mindset, behaviors, and even your mood.

This is why having the wrong type of people around you can feel like a heavy burden.

You don’t need certain types of people in your life. Here are 10 types to watch out for:

1. People who act like a victim in a problem they created

We all know someone who never takes responsibility for their actions and constantly blames others when they find themselves in problematic situations.

These perpetual victims are masters of deflection, always pointing fingers instead of looking in the mirror.

When you constantly have to deal with someone like this, it can be exhausting.

You’ll find yourself caught in a never-ending cycle of drama, where you’re either being blamed or feeling guilty and obligated to help them, even when it’s not your fault.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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