7 Things That Show Immaturity, No Matter A Person’s Age

How I spot immature people and save myself from unnecessary stress.

Victor Mong


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Have you ever met someone whose actions left you pondering, “Why are they so immature?”

Immaturity makes relationships and interactions awkward and challenging.

Whether as a partner, colleague, or boss, an immature person can cause you enormous stress.

And being able to spot the signs of immaturity can help you better navigate your relationship with them.

Here are seven of such behavior patterns that I’ve found that can help you quickly identify someone as immature

They Have No Mind of Their Own

An immature person doesn’t have a mind of their own, which makes them vulnerable to manipulation.

The reason is that they often lack the confidence to make their own decisions. As a result, they tend to value other people’s opinions over their own.

Irrespective of someone’s age, if they can’t make their own decision about what matters to them and have to rely on what others say, then they have a lot of growing up to do.

This lack of independent thought reveals itself in different areas of their lives, from decision-making to forming opinions. It’s as if they’re on autopilot, following the crowd without question.

As a result, an immature person is highly likely to adopt behaviors, attitudes, or even values simply because “everyone else is doing it.”

The ability to think for yourself and make independent judgments is a hallmark of maturity.

As you mature, you ought to develop the capacity for reasoned personal decisions without recourse to a third party.

This doesn’t mean that you won’t seek counsel or listen to people’s advice when it’s appropriate. Rather, it’s about not diminishing your own judgment, especially when you’re convinced about your decisions.

Spotting this sign in someone is important in your relationship with them because it will protect you from unnecessary stress and conflict.



Victor Mong

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