7 Crucial Things People Wait Too Long to Do For Themselves

Which of them are you guilty of?

Victor Mong


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How many times have you needed to take action but kept putting it off until it was too late?

Too many time, people waste time waiting for a perfect path or the right time to take action on things that impact their lives.

Here are 7 things I have observed in a lot of people and if you’re guilty of any, it’s time to get up and do it.

Forgive Yourself For Your Errors

Many people carry the pain and regrets of their mistakes, failures, and setbacks in their hearts for far too long.

They keep beating themselves up, become self-judgmental, and refuse to forgive themselves for the bad decisions they made five years ago.

But refusing to forgive yourself is like being trapped in a state of perpetual self-punishment. It robs you of growth and happiness and affects your well-being.

Regardless of the mistakes you made in the past, forgiving yourself is a crucial step to your healing, closure, and moving forward with self-compassion.

Nobody is immune to errors or setbacks in various aspects of life.

We all fumble. We all make bad decisions that put us into trouble, whether it’s about our health, relationship, career, or finance.

And it’s okay to feel guilty for letting yourself down, but accept your mistakes, learn from them, and most importantly, forgive yourself.

Refusing to let go and constantly feeling miserable because of your past actions and decisions will not change the past, but can hold you back from moving forward with confidence.

Forgive Others For Their Wrongdoings

There are two ways we express forgiveness: toward ourselves for our own errors or to others for the wrong they did to us.

In either case, the goal is the same — to liberate ourselves from the emotional burden of holding on to unforgiveness.

We tend to think that if we don’t forgive someone who offended us, they’ll somehow suffer from our refusal to forgive them.



Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com