7 Things People Do That Show Disrespect, No Matter What They Say

Disrespect ruins relationships.

Victor Mong


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Disrespect is damaging to healthy human interactions.

One way to know someone cares about you is if they respect you. As Miguel Angel Ruiz said, “Respect is one of the greatest expressions of love.”

When we engage in behaviors that disrespect others, we show our lack of appreciation for them. This erodes trust, fosters negativity, and undermines relationships.

Here are seven behaviors that are disrespectful, even though they don’t always look like it.

Ghosting Someone Without Explanation

Ghosting is a behavior that signals an utter lack of respect in subtle yet profound ways.

It doesn’t matter what someone says; they don’t respect you if they find it convenient to blank you out at any given chance.

You met someone new, be it through an app, a mutual friend, or at a social event. You’re vibing, sharing laughs and plans. The initial conversations are promising; a connection sparks and a potential bond forms.

Then suddenly, crickets. Just as swiftly as the conversations began, they abruptly halted every contact with you.

They no longer respond to your messages, your calls go to voicemail, and your once-promising interaction fades into an unsettling silence.

Now, you’re restless, crawling up on your bed, pacing the floor, and wondering what went wrong or if they’re even okay.

No matter what reason you may have, ghosting is disrespectful. It shows a disregard for other people’s feelings. It’s like saying, “Your feelings don’t matter enough for me to communicate honestly.”

Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and honest communication.

If you find yourself losing interest in or needing space from someone, think about how your silence will hurt them, so you can at least have the courtesy to have an open and honest conversation about it.

This not only shows respect for the other person’s feelings but also helps create a culture of empathy and understanding.



Victor Mong

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