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Six Things People May Not Notice But Have Massive Impact on Your Life

“Men’s natures are alike; it is their habits that separate them.” — Confucius

Victor Mong
5 min readMar 11, 2024
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Many of the habits that have the most impact on your life are behaviors that nobody will notice or pat you on tbe back for.

Here are just six that I’ve found particularly influential.

1 —Respect For Yourself

Self-respect isn’t something tangible people see with their eyes, like wearing a Rolex watch or driving a fancy car.

It’s a deeply internalized quality that reflects how a person values and treat themselves.

When you start practicing the habit of self-respect, it reflects in how you carry yourself, speak up for yourself, take responsibility for your life, and set boundaries on how you treat others and want to be treated.

You won’t go where you’re not invited, be available for everyone, and most importantly, you’ll carry yourself with more confidence and swagger.

This impacts how you talk, how you interact with others, the behaviors and type of people you allow into your space, and the kind of energy people feel when they interact with you.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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