6 Clear Signs a Woman Is Carrying Unhealed Trauma

Understand why they act the way they do.

Victor Mong
7 min readJun 23, 2024
Photo by Julia Taubitz on Unsplash

What you might not know is that unhealed trauma is a major cause of relationship challenges, from minor arguments to ruinous divorce and women are the ones to initiate it.

Fact: Women initiate about 69% of divorces.

Fact: People with a history of trauma often experience more relationship difficulties and higher rates of breakup and divorce.

You can draw your conclusions, but it’s clear that unhealed trauma is an undeniable burden on the heart.

These are wounds, scars, and emotional baggage people carry in their minds from the negative experiences they’ve had in the past.

Women and men often respond differently to unhealed trauma, and this can make it really difficult to build a relationship.

Here are some of the behaviors that can reveal unhealed trauma in a woman.

Excessive Need for Control

An excessive need for control, where a woman wants her fingers on every little thing that goes on around her, is a clear sign of unresolved trauma.

If you’re in a relationship and your woman always insists on making all the decisions—from what to eat for dinner…

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Victor Mong

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