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5 Hard Truths You Don’t Want To Accept About Why People Ignore Your Boundaries

Fix them if you want people to take you seriously and respect your boundaries.

Victor Mong
6 min readDec 29, 2023
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The starting point for setting and maintaining your boundaries is recognizing that you are the only one who makes people disregard them.

Boundaries are crucial for healthy relationships and social interactions. They set the bounds of what we consider acceptable in our interactions with one another.

If people are unable to uphold each other’s boundaries, then we don’t have any need for them, and relationships become exhausting.

Most times, the problems people have in relationships are often due to their inability to set and enforce boundaries.

For instance, if you put up with your partner’s bad behaviors for too long, you might start feeling upset and not wanting to be in the relationship anymore

Also, if you always say yes to too much work or every request from your boss or coworkers, it can make your job stressful. This is why it’s good to set limits and talk about what you can handle.

So, making sure people respect your boundaries is up to you, and here are five things you might be doing that make people ignore your boundaries.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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