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If Your Woman Still Thinks About Her Ex, These 5 Hard Truths Explain Why

“A woman is loyal to her emotions, not your expectations or sacrifices.”

Victor Mong
6 min readJan 20, 2025
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If you’re sitting there wondering why your woman keeps bringing up her ex, or worse, seems to still be holding a candle for him despite being with you, then you need to wake up and face some hard truths.

What you may not know is that it’s not always because she’s “crazy” or “too emotional” as you think. More often than not, the issue lies squarely on your shoulders, and you’re the one keeping that door open.

I’ll be brutally honest with you so you know what needs to change if you want a better relationship.

You’re Not Providing the Emotional Security She Needs

Emotional security is essential for a lasting relationship.

When a woman gets involved with you, her emotional needs are paramount.

She wants to feel secure, valued, and understood. She wants to be in a space where she can say, “I’m struggling,” knowing you’ll listen without dismissing or judging her.

If you’re not providing that, then of course she’s going to think about someone who used to do it.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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