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4 Clever Psychological Tricks You Should Know In Your Relationships

These tricks help you build trust and connection faster

Victor Mong
7 min readAug 22, 2022
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How can you be more attractive and get someone to like you faster?

Over time, psychologists have spent years figuring out the answer to this question. And it turns out that you can actually use certain “psychological tricks” to increase their likability and attractiveness.

In this article, I outline four of my favorite psychological tricks that I have found to build trust and connection faster and help anyone become more likable, whether at home or work.

Self-disclosure: Go personal and intimate

Openness is a key trait of successful relationships. It’s hard not to like or feel attracted to someone who lets you in on their privy information.

When you self-disclose, you’re not just revealing minor personal details. Instead, you’re sharing intimate information that the other person would not normally know or discover on their own. This takes a lot of risks and vulnerability.

Researchers have found when people self-disclose, it signals trust. This deepens bonds of friendship quickly and grows the feeling of attraction.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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