How to Spark Deeper Conversations in Your Relationship

3 questions you can rely on

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I’ve been married for four years now, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that relationships aren’t just about love and affection—they’re also about understanding and communication.

Yes, love, shared interests, and trust are important in any close relationship, but they aren’t always enough to build a truly strong, deep connection.

What really makes a relationship last and thrive is the ability to have hard conversations—those uncomfortable talks where you go beyond the surface and address the real stuff that’s bothering you.

Over time, I’ve discovered that this is what turns a good relationship into a great one

Deep conversations are where true intimacy lives. The issue is, many of us don’t know how to start those conversations, or we avoid them altogether because we’re afraid of what we’ll hear.

There are three questions in particular that have helped me and my wife tackle hidden issues and build a stronger bond.

1- What is something you have been telling me that I have been overlooking?

When we first got married, my wife would occasionally express frustrations that…