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15 Hard Things That Are Always Worth Doing for Yourself Before It’s Too Late

Victor Mong
10 min readSep 28, 2024

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In life, there are some things that just won’t come easy. And the truth is, they probably shouldn’t.

The things that matter most are the ones we often avoid. But these are the very things that create meaning, purpose, and growth.

Here are 13 of those things—actions that may feel difficult or uncomfortable, but are always worth doing for yourself before it’s too late.

Let Go of Rigid and Unnecessary Ideals

One of the most profound but difficult things you can do is let go of the rigid ideals that define your understanding of success, happiness, and identity.

So much of our frustration and unhappiness comes from trying to live up to ideals that aren’t even ours.

Maybe it’s the pressure to have a certain career, a certain body type, or a certain relationship dynamic.

When you constantly chase ideals that don’t align with your true self, you trap yourself in a prison of expectations.

“Rigid ideals are the enemies of growth. They limit your vision of what’s possible and keep you stuck,” says Dr. Carol Dweck in her research on growth mindsets.

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Victor Mong
Victor Mong

Written by Victor Mong

I write about human potential, building a life you want & mastering your mind || info.victormong@gmail.com

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