11 Red Flags To Watch In Yourself

We’re often blind to our own flaws

Victor Mong
8 min readJul 21, 2023
Photo by Anika Huizinga on Unsplash

We’re often preoccupied with thoughts of how other people’s behaviors affect us, but what we rarely consider is the impact our own actions have on others.

It’s like we’re standing in front of a big mirror, checking out everyone else’s reflection, but forgetting to take a peek at our own.

This is a common human bias.

We tend to think we’re less likely to act or behave in the same way as others do. We think we’re immune to mistakes or missteps.

Because of this, we’re not always mindful of our actions. This sense of invulnerability can hinder us from recognizing the subtle ways our actions might hurt others.

The truth is, you’re human. You’re not perfect. You make mistakes. You’re susceptible to behaviors you may think are okay without realizing they affect the people around you.

Recognizing these red flags can help you manage how you relate to and interact with others in any relationship.

Here are 11 major red flags to watch out for in yourself:

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Victor Mong

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